Before you do anything, right after your break take a month or two away from your ex and give yourself some time. Focus on yourself, relax and try to find out the reasons why you guys broke up and if there’s still a way to solve it. And if there isn’t a solution, think on the fact whether you’ll be able to live with the unsorted matter or not. Once you have decided that he’s or she’s the only one for you, you should go ahead with the following step which show you how to get your ex back:
- People change with time, and sometimes when they are in a relationship because they want to live up to the expectations of their partners. One of the causes of the breakup is the people in the relationship don’t find whom they fell in love with anymore. Meaning you may have changed a lot. So, try to be who your partner fell in love with.
- Be confident about yourself and what you really want. If your ex is too important for you, then you will have the confidence to get them back. If they are angry, you can get them to smile. Stick around and persevere If you both want the same things. You may even have developed habits which your ex doesn’t like anymore which could have led to the break up. Work on them, and see whether your habits are more important for you or your ex. If it is the latter, then let go of the habits and don’t let them come back.
The key to a good and happy relationship is adjustments.if you both can make them then you both will be happy being with each other. You should understand what the other person wants from you and the relationship, and be that. But by not changing yourself too much in the process.